Jonny 'Torque' Hester and Berek 'Next' Dostie discuss the hardest challenges and the most rewarding aspects of being a Tribe Leader. Men’s Alliance builds leaders and the Tribe Leader is the heartbeat of MA! Sponsor: Hawkins Health and Fitness Nick 'Coach' Hawkins Find out more: 804-638-1386 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life. Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages. As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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Stephen Mansfield, acclaimed author and speaker, discusses what men need more than anything right now. Goose and Stephen discuss some of his books such as Men on Fire, Mansfield's Book of Manly Men, and how Building Your Band of Brothers had an impact on MA. Stephen discusses why isolation is terminal, and why you need to surround yourself with strong brothers in Christ. On the topic of servant leadership, that we need to have a calm presence and confidence in who we are created to be by God, and work to serve others. Lastly, listen as Stephen discusses how weak men make angry women, and how we need to be biblically strong men for our families. Current book Stephen is reading: Innovators - by Walter Isaacson Books by Stephen discussed in the episode: Building You Band of Brothers Mansfield's Book of Manly Men Men on Fire God and Guinness Additional Books by Stephen Other ways to find out more about Stephen's work: Website Podcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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Brad Smith is on a mission to bring men’s ministry to nations outside of the United States. Across cultures, men want to build connections with other men and find strong Christian men to hold them accountable. Learn More: https://www.menofvalor.org/ Books Mentioned: What’s so great about Christianity by Dinesh D’Souza Living as a Man of Valor - Brad Smith Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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In this episode, we sit down with Derek "Torque" McMaster as he shares his raw and inspiring journey from battling addiction to becoming a leader, mentor, and man of faith. Derek’s story is a testament to the power of second chances, the importance of surrounding yourself with strong influences, and the undeniable grace of God. If you or someone you love is struggling, this episode is proof that you don’t have to stay where you are—change is possible. 🙏 🔥 Key Topics Covered: ✅ Surviving multiple overdoses & hitting rock bottom ✅ The wake-up call that changed everything ✅ How faith and brotherhood helped him break free ✅ The power of Men’s Alliance and community ✅ Life lessons on leadership, resilience, and purpose 💬 Comment below: What part of Derek’s journey resonated with you the most? 📌 Follow & Subscribe for more stories of transformation, faith, and leadership. #Testimony #FaithOverFear #MensAlliance #AddictionRecovery #ChristianLeadership #redemptionstory Register for the National Rally in May! https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/national-rally Buy our Protein! - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/shop/ma-downrange-mermite-field-recovery-protein Follow Men's Alliance Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribe Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribe Website - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/ Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV
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Have you ever had a friend really piss you off and you had to decide whether to just be done with this person completely or go talk to them and fix the problem? We've all been there, and in this episode I will tell you why it's better to roll up your sleeves and fix the messy relationship problems than it is to just walk away. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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