Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life. Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages. As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
Being a godly father isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, leading with humility, and pointing your family to Christ. In this powerful conversation, Kent Evans, the Director of Manhood Journey, dives deep into the challenges and triumphs of biblical fatherhood. From personal failures to life-changing moments, Kent shares raw insights on discipleship, marriage, and raising sons in a Christ-centered home.🔥 Key Takeaways:✅ The #1 mistake dads make—and how to fix it✅ How to disciple your kids without being perfect✅ Why apologizing to your children is a game-changer✅ Overcoming discouragement and staying in the fight✅ The role of faith, resilience, and mentorship in shaping the next generationIf you’re a dad (or a future dad), this episode is a must-watch. Hit LIKE if you’re committed to biblical fatherhood and SUBSCRIBE for more content that sharpens men in faith and leadership!📖 Check out Kent’s book, “Don’t Bench Yourself” → https://amzn.to/3EDMbo6💪 Explore Manhood Journey’s free resources for dads → https://ManhoodJourney.orgRecommended Book from Kent - Teaching to Save Lives by Dr. Howard Hendricks - Teaching to Change Lives - https://amzn.to/3Qokz9aRegister for the National Rally in May!https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/national-rallyBuy our Protein (and our coffee!) - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/shop/ma-downrange-mermite-field-recovery-proteinFollow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV
Listen to full episodeYou might outsource having your oil changed or your lawn mulched, but as a father you cannot outsource the spiritual growth of your children. If you're dropping your kids off at church and thinking that it's the youth pastors job to instill a Christian worldview in your kids then you're messing up and it's time for you to step up this week and lead a family devotion. But don't worry, this episode will walk you through how to do it. Dads, you can do this! Don't outsource your most important job! Family Shepherds: Calling and Equipping Men to Lead Their Homes --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
Listen to full episodeHospitality is not about showing off, it’s about making others feel welcome. Be willing to not have everything together but welcome others in genuine love and friendship. Support MA https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/support --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
Listen to full episodeThis week Isaac "Chef" Wiafe joins the podcast to share his journey, and how he found MA. From growing up in Ghana to finding God, and working his way up in America. Chef shares what he has learned and what he wants his children to understand. Mentioned in the podcast: Men's Alliance Start the Fire event Nov 10-11th 2023 Sponsor: Tom Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] The Main Street Group - website --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
Listen to full episodeListen in as 3 guys discuss tools that can effectively break the addiction to pornography and sex. Resources mentioned: Soul Refiner Pure Desire Sexaholics Anonymous (aka The White Book) Addictive Thinking --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support
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