Ep 186: Men and Divorce

Divorce is one of the hardest things a man can go through, and while no Christian man wants a divorce, it can happen to us against our will. Listen as three tribesmen share their journey of going through divorce and learning to heal. Books Mentioned: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality- Peter Scazzero The Me I Want to Be - John Ortberg Letting Go - David Hawkins Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jul 18
1 hr 33 min
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Iron Sharpens Iron

Past Episodes

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War Stories 3: Raised by Lesbians

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Men’s Alliance

The personal story of Joseph "Iron" Willis, from having no dad of his own, to becoming a great father of four, and a leader in Men's Alliance! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Sep 15
50 min
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Ep 11: Why Men's Alliance "Works"

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Men’s Alliance

Here's why Men's Alliance works better than the church's small group model, how to start one in your area, and why you need to stay plugged in to a great tribe. And as I mention in the episode, here's a 60-second article on how NOT to build a tribe. How NOT To Build a Tribe — Alpha Tango Counseling --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Dec 11
08 min
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Ep 107: Fight Like Daniel

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Men’s Alliance

We are under constant spiritual attack from an enemy whose mission is to steal, kill, and destroy. And the only way to have peace is to remain firmly rooted in Jesus Christ - who has already overcome the world. There's much we can learn from the classic story of Daniel and the den of lions about how to fight and win a spiritual battle. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Nov 11
32 min
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Ep 154: Race & Diversity in MA

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Men’s Alliance

Five Tribesmen discuss their perceptions of race and diversity at Men’s Alliance and how regardless of our skin color, it’s our relationship w/ Jesus Christ that unites us. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Oct 26
1 hr 05 min
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Ep 175: How Great Men Grieve

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Men’s Alliance

Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life.  Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages.  As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

May 02
1 hr 21 min
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