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Ep 175: How Great Men Grieve

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Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life. Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages. As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through. How to connect with Johanna:johannastamps.com804 944 [email protected] Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve “If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

May 02

1 hr 21 min

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Episode 218: The #1 Mistake Dads Make (And How to Fix It) | Kent Evans on Biblical Fatherhood and the Manhood Journey

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Being a godly father isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, leading with humility, and pointing your family to Christ. In this powerful conversation, Kent Evans, the Director of Manhood Journey, dives deep into the challenges and triumphs of biblical fatherhood. From personal failures to life-changing moments, Kent shares raw insights on discipleship, marriage, and raising sons in a Christ-centered home.🔥 Key Takeaways:✅ The #1 mistake dads make—and how to fix it✅ How to disciple your kids without being perfect✅ Why apologizing to your children is a game-changer✅ Overcoming discouragement and staying in the fight✅ The role of faith, resilience, and mentorship in shaping the next generationIf you’re a dad (or a future dad), this episode is a must-watch. Hit LIKE if you’re committed to biblical fatherhood and SUBSCRIBE for more content that sharpens men in faith and leadership!📖 Check out Kent’s book, “Don’t Bench Yourself” → https://amzn.to/3EDMbo6💪 Explore Manhood Journey’s free resources for dads → https://ManhoodJourney.orgRecommended Book from Kent - Teaching to Save Lives by Dr. Howard Hendricks - Teaching to Change Lives - https://amzn.to/3Qokz9aRegister for the National Rally in May!https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/national-rallyBuy our Protein (and our coffee!) - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/shop/ma-downrange-mermite-field-recovery-proteinFollow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador’s Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Feb 20

1 hr 08 min

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Ep 37: Saying No w/ Jeff Van Atta

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Do you feel overwhelmed, but continue to say yes to everything and everyone? As we get back to life as "Normal" there are going to be alot more opportunities to say Yes to the wrong things. How and when do we say No? And when do we say Yes? We have to have a mission, goals, or creed we follow to know when to say No and when to say Yes. No is a decision but yes is a responsibility --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jun 11

09 min

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Ep 181: Men of Valor w/Brad Smith

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Brad Smith is on a mission to bring men’s ministry to nations outside of the United States. Across cultures, men want to build connections with other men and find strong Christian men to hold them accountable. Learn More: https://www.menofvalor.org/ Books Mentioned: What’s so great about Christianity by Dinesh D’Souza Living as a Man of Valor - Brad Smith Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® [email protected] Craig Heah. [email protected] ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jun 24

52 min

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War Stories 1: The Funeral

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Dusty "Shadow" Parker's personal story of life and death in the Marine Corps, the surprise lesson he learned at a funeral, and how that should make us all live differently. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mensalliancetribe/support

Jul 22

38 min

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